Negative Energy

Sometimes we have negative energy or negative things or even people around us that need to be “declutterd” so to speak. I have always had the need to constantly keep organization in my life. I always go through clothes that no longer fit me or my children and I always give them to an organization that then gives them away to others for free. I honestly believe in paying it forward so to speak. I also have a tendency to do this in my everyday life as well and with people around me. I believe that kindness and help toward others is always the way even though sometimes I am took advantage of for my kindness. But getting back to the decluttering, about every 4 months I make it a point to look at my life really strongly and decide what is helping me and what is hurting me and then I make decisions accordingly. So of course I have been going through the basement, attic, kids room, etc… But I have also been going through the people in my life. Although I love a lot of the people that are currently in my life I know that there are times when they hurt me more than help me and this is when I cut off ties. It does hurt and sometimes feels selfish but in the long run it has always helped. Because in actuality you cannot help others unless you can help yourself.